Client Graduation. What Happens When a Client Leaves




Last week I graduated a client!

What does this mean?

Clients come to me with many different goals. Some are looking for specific pain relief. Some want regular self care. Some start Thai massage to support their mental health. Some of these goals are ongoing and simply become a part of the clients regular routine, but when these goals are specific and we reach them, the relationship changes.

A client had been coming every week or every other week for over a year. They started because they needed pain relief and intentional stretching, but they also began to notice the mental health benefits of regular self care.

As their pain has subsided and they've found motivation to start working with a personal trainer, they don't need Thai massage as often.

So the relationship changes.

I often see my regulars more frequently than I see some friends, so I'm always sad to see them less. BUT, I am SO happy to see my clients moving forward with their goals and feeling better in their bodies.

And when clients move on, they know I'll still be here for them when they need to come back.

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